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Small O, Big 0, A Complete Body 0, and Oh! The After Shocks, I love it all.

 Making Pleasure A Priority I can remember those orgasms when I was around 16. Enjoying discovery my body’s pleasures. It was so easy to orgasm by humping a pillow or the edge of a mattress. What fun, experimenting with what movement felt good and what felt awesome. My magic fingers, pressing (varied pressures) and caressing […]

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Born Angry

The earliest emotion I can remember having is anger. Born in the early 1960’s, I had parents that were born in the 1930’s, an age where men and women’s roles were distinctly defined and those roles were upheld in legislation and in religious communities.  Then came me, defiant, and determined. My poor mom wondered why […]

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Sexual Myths

Oh the Lies I was pondering what are myths? I started with google and found Joseph Campbell’s and Wikipedia’s definition of myths and their functions. I never realized there where so many definitions and functions of myths and how my culture is ladened with myth, not just sexual ones. Myths can be things of legends […]

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First Bodysex Experience

I signed up for a bodysex workshop after chatting with one of the facilitators. I chose her specifically because she is a plus sized woman. I figure if she is comfortable in her own skin and being a sexual being then maybe, just maybe, there is hope for me. I like the idea of the […]

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Tribute to Betty Dodson

I stumbled across Betty Dodson’s life’s work while I was looking for a comprehensive sex program that included nudity. Well, I found that and more. Betty’s books and art work challenged my puritan views of sex and showed me a path to reclaim my sexuality. As I explore Betty’s life through “Sex By Design”, I […]