Making Pleasure A Priority
I am so proud to announce that I completed my BodySex Certification in April 2025. Resulting in holding my inaugural Ontario BodySex Circle in May 2025.
It was exciting to facilitate sharing Dr Betty Dodson’s iconic BodySex rituals. Knowing that as the participants learn about their evergreen clitoral system and touch themselves in the right way long enough, they will orgasm and/ or enhance their orgasm.
Highlights
Perfect Setting for Pleasure, Inside and Outside
The setting could not have been more beautiful as spring finally arrived in northern Ontario. The budding trees transform the horizon into multi-shades of green lace. Once again, the earth comes to life with loons calling to their mates, rabbits frolicking and oh the aroma of flowers on the breeze.
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Inside, in order to accentuate the sensual; soft throws cover the futon chairs and one can run their toes over the silky carpet. It is the perfect setting for pleasure.
Apprehension to Curiosity
I felt a bit apprehensive. Yet the excitement of meeting all the women and knowing the potential transformational power of circle (as a participant in my first BodySex circle, I experienced a decrease in body and sexual desire shame), my apprehension dissolves into curiosity and eagerness to witness each woman’s BodySex journey.
How do I Feel About My Body? How Do I Feel About My Orgasm?
I start the circle; with how do I feel about my body and orgasm? Being honest, I said sometimes it is difficult to be in my body with all that comes with aging, yet I love my orgasm and would not be without her.
Shedding Body Shame, Shedding Shame
As I began facilitating the group in Betty’s Rock N Roll method. I continue to be amazed at how pleasuring myself in a group of like-minded women sheds more of my body shame and others voiced the same. I had parts that where worried that as I walked the participants through R n R steps I would not orgasm. Then I started to focus on pleasure and reminded myself and the group that pleasure is the goal. Removing orgasm as the goal, decreased my performance anxiety, allowed my mind to focus on fantasy and the pleasure happening in my body while giving invitational instructions to the participants. During all this I amazed myself and I did orgasm.
Teaching from My Website
When I started the BodySex coaching certification I envisioned having all the BodySex educational materials on my website
Everything is there from the vulva sketches to my sound clouded guided Rock N Roll. I am very proud of this achievement because the participants can prepare themselves before the workshop and use the website to review their Bodysex experience after the workshop
Sharing Orgasms (Each woman is responsible for giving themselves self pleasure)
In the aftermath of group shared orgasms, it feels like spring to me. The smells, the after-glow ushers in this moment of rejuvenation and sheds the winters that have accumulated in my soul.
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